My 55th Year

Yesterday was the 1st day of my 55th year.  Being in the life insurance business for the past 28 years I constantly talk about life expectancy tables and mortality tables.  Both of these tables take into consideration occupation, avocations, personal health and family history.  I often refer to my own family history to offer an example.

My father died at the age of 54, as did my grandfather and great-grandfather.  As a 16-year old I thought my father was old. The older I have become the more I have come to realize just how incredibly young he really was.  I always thought that being born in 1918, driving a model T, and fighting in World War II made you old.  My children think that being born in the 50's and listening to the oldies radio station makes me old.  We had a party line growing up, listened to records, 4-tracks, 8-tracks and cassette tapes.  No one had cell phones, computers or microwaves.

I think of my father often, I miss him and wish I would have had him around longer to share my life with.  He once told me that the age 54 scared him and that if he could make it to 55 he could go to 100.  On the contrary I am excited for 54.  My health is good, I give blood regularly (I am up to my 8-gallon pin) and I watch my cholesterol and blood pressure.  In my training classes I always laugh and say "I take after my mom."

I miss my dad and can't wait to see him again.  But I can certainly wait another 25 to 30 years.  2011 has all the makings of a wonderfully fantastic year.  Thomas is getting married, Forrest will go on his mission, Charity will enter high school and start driving.  Not sure about the fantastic part of that last bit.  My job is going well and my wife loves me.  2011 will end on a real high note - I will turn 55!  May this new year bring blessings to each of you and your families.  Lyle